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	<title>She Said This, He Said That</title>
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		<title>The Cheating Kind</title>
		<description><![CDATA[We haven’t really discussed this before, but it may come as no surprise that I come from a long line of cheaters. In fact, aside from a very select few, every member of my family has been unfaithful to their spouses. Could the fact that I was born into a marriage which was over even before [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://shesaidthis-hesaidthat.com/2010/03/the-cheating-kind/</link>
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		<title>Cheaters Never Win And Winners Never Cheat</title>
		<description><![CDATA[I don’t think my parents ever cheated on each other. I never even thought about it as a kid, but even now, with my experience as an adult in this age of infidelity, I’d still bet my monthly rent on the two of them being completely faithful for all 50 plus years of their marriage. [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://shesaidthis-hesaidthat.com/2010/03/cheaters-never-win-and-winners-never-cheat/</link>
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		<title>Plan B: Forget Plan A?</title>
		<description><![CDATA[As I embark on the third month of my “If you build it, He will come” year, I have to take a moment to reflect on last month’s progress. Gotta say, compared to January, February was more than a little painful. In fact, I think I have a few battle wounds.
It started out fine; I [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://shesaidthis-hesaidthat.com/2010/03/plan-b-forget-plan-a/</link>
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		<title>One Step Forward, Two Steps Back</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Obviously you’ve never heard the old joke. Hard to believe, since I’ve been beating it to death since I was old enough to tell the difference between bad luck and no luck, but it goes something like this: “How do you make God laugh? Have a plan.”
I have no idea who invented these fairy tales [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://shesaidthis-hesaidthat.com/2010/03/one-step-forward-two-steps-back/</link>
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		<title>Dress For The Job You Want</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Still licking my wounds from the recent [Salt &#38; Pepper] break-up by text, last night I decided to give myself a big dose of ego medicine – in the form of my friends. So I had a few of them over for dinner. A few meaning two &#8211; one of my best guy friends, and [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://shesaidthis-hesaidthat.com/2010/02/dress-for-the-job-you-want/</link>
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		<title>Dress Rehearsal</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Your grandmother was right. It has been true since the third grade. The way in which a woman presents herself is the single most defined portion of what a man thinks when he meets her. Part and parcel with this is the fact that a woman can only present herself as the woman she truly [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://shesaidthis-hesaidthat.com/2010/02/dress-rehearsal/</link>
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		<title>Read &#8216;Em And Weep</title>
		<description><![CDATA[“Hi [She Said] – It has been really great to get to know you. You are a great person and you make me laugh. I have recently met and been spending time with another gal and it’s a relationship that I want to pursue. I want to be honest with you rather than string you along. [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://shesaidthis-hesaidthat.com/2010/02/read-em-and-weep/</link>
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		<title>The Fine Print</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes being right sucks. And this is officially one of those times.
Okay, so my first question is a no-brainer: “I hope you don’t think this is a wussy way to handle this&#8230;” God, I feel like such a chick when I say this, but are you kidding me, Pal? If it wasn’t a completely wussy [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://shesaidthis-hesaidthat.com/2010/02/the-fine-print/</link>
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		<title>Are We There Yet?</title>
		<description><![CDATA[It’s that time. Well, at least I think it’s that time &#8211; the, “What’s the status of our relationship?” time. Over a month has gone by. Over 10 dates have gone by. We have Valentine’s Day under our belts; we have been to each other’s houses multiple times. I’ve cooked him dinner. He’s snored through [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://shesaidthis-hesaidthat.com/2010/02/are-we-there-yet/</link>
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		<title>There And Gone</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Not too long ago, I could dismiss your dilemma with that expression, “He’s just not that into you.” But things are so different these days. To some, just saying that probably makes me sound old. Well, I’m not old, and I’m certainly no idealist, but you don’t have to be either one of these to [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://shesaidthis-hesaidthat.com/2010/02/there-and-gone/</link>
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