He Said Archives:
Hey, we ALL do a little re-organizing and re-evaluating when the New Year rolls around. You shouldn’t feel the least bit strange or alone in your quest to clean the slate of any old business or any old habits you’re determined to discard. Where you lose me is with the dating philosophy re-evaluation. Maybe it’s because [...]
I’m disappointed, but not because you went back to Facebook. I’m disappointed because for a minute there, I swear it sounded as if you’d gotten laid.
We both know exactly how I feel about Facebook. I lasted exactly one month, remember? Inventing sudden friendships with people from my past with whom I’d never been friends in [...]
So is your first New Year’s resolution that you won’t be alone anymore, or that you won’t end up alone? They are the same, yet as different as they can be.
I have kids, three really good kids, so maybe that means I’ll never end up alone. But I don’t think that’s the “alone” you’re talking about. [...]
This is one of the many areas where you and I are different. I don’t travel very much… Pretty much everyone I know travels much more frequently than I do and pretty much everyone I know LOVES to travel. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t hate traveling by any means, but I’m just not sure [...]
Everybody says one of two things when describing how they feel about the holiday season. Universally, it’s either “I love the holidays!” or “I hate the holidays.”
It always makes me feel so out of place. Why? Because I don’t feel either way. Time off from work, I like. The department store soundtrack drowning me for [...]
Ah, the disclaimer… guys don’t just give women the disclaimer; we give the disclaimer to each other ALL THE TIME.
“It’s not serious at all and that’s what I like about it.”
“She can only get away from her husband once in a while, so it’s perfect for me.”
“It’s not like I’d ever fall in love with [...]
The Beach Boys went “cruisin’” every Saturday night… Smokey Robinson waxed poetic of “cruisin’” to a gaggle of hungry women many years later… but I haven’t heard much about cruising this last decade or so. Now here you are, getting “cruised,” on a balmy autumn night – I like it. I like it that they [...]
Boy, I don’t know where to start…
I guess let’s start with the party thing. I completely agree with you. Parties suck. I’m definitely more the intimate setting dinner party guy rather than the party guy, but I wouldn’t mind having a keg to myself. I have to admit though, what I do love about parties [...]
Let me start out by saying something that men don’t say often. You’re right. You heard me – You. Are. Right.
Would you really like to know why we refuse to commit to plans with a woman? It’s the same reason why we do most of the things we do. Because we can. It’s true. We [...]
Yeah, and another thing — you know, what she said.
You know what the problem is with the expression, “perfect marriage?” It includes the word, “perfect.” Here’s my idea of a perfect marriage – one in which neither one ever utters the word, “perfect.” But if we must document a list of the components of a so-called [...]
