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March 26th, 2010

I think it’s safe to say, I’ve definitely lived life with a plan. When I was a little girl, I knew aside from the 50 things I thought I wanted to be (like a doctor, lawyer or gymnast), what I really wanted to be was a writer or an artist. So I did both.
The plan [...]

March 26th, 2010

Plus One? Is that anything like BYOB? Or Pot Luck? Maybe not, but all do have one thing in common; we all are feel like losers if we don’t comply. Personally, I find plus one to be highly overrated. I speak from experience – I was married, remember? I used to dread the “plus one” [...]

March 19th, 2010

It should come as no surprise that one of my favorite movies of all time is When Harry Met Sally.
Among the many famous quotes, for me the most memorable is, “Men and women can’t be friends because the sex part always gets in the way.”                                                                       
Aside from us being the exception to the rule, I [...]

March 19th, 2010

My favorite is the orgasm scene in the restaurant…
The best I can do on this subject is to share three personal stories. These stories will only confirm the conclusion you have ultimately reached… that 98% of the time, men and women simply cannot be friends. If there is even a sniff of sexual frustration involved, [...]

March 12th, 2010

It’s official. I’m exactly one year away from forty. It’s weird. I’m actually not sure how I feel about it. I feel as if I’m in my early thirties. I look as if I’m in my early thirties (I think). My career is having an exciting upswing, and I’m certainly putting myself out there dating-wise; [...]

March 12th, 2010

There’s a fine line between getting older and getting old. You’re still on the young side of that line, but to paraphrase the immortal Satchel Paige, “Don’t look back… something might be gaining on you.” Yeah, like the calendar.
Everybody makes such a big deal about age. I’m no different. If someone has a woman they [...]

March 9th, 2010

We haven’t really discussed this before, but it may come as no surprise that I come from a long line of cheaters. In fact, aside from a very select few, every member of my family has been unfaithful to their spouses. Could the fact that I was born into a marriage which was over even before [...]

March 9th, 2010

I don’t think my parents ever cheated on each other. I never even thought about it as a kid, but even now, with my experience as an adult in this age of infidelity, I’d still bet my monthly rent on the two of them being completely faithful for all 50 plus years of their marriage. [...]

March 2nd, 2010

As I embark on the third month of my “If you build it, He will come” year, I have to take a moment to reflect on last month’s progress. Gotta say, compared to January, February was more than a little painful. In fact, I think I have a few battle wounds.
It started out fine; I [...]

March 2nd, 2010

Obviously you’ve never heard the old joke. Hard to believe, since I’ve been beating it to death since I was old enough to tell the difference between bad luck and no luck, but it goes something like this: “How do you make God laugh? Have a plan.”
I have no idea who invented these fairy tales [...]