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Dress For The Job You Want
Still licking my wounds from the recent [Salt & Pepper] break-up by text, last night I decided to give myself a big dose of ego medicine – in the form of my friends. So I had a few of them over for dinner. A few meaning two – one of my best guy friends, and
Dress Rehearsal
Your grandmother was right. It has been true since the third grade. The way in which a woman presents herself is the single most defined portion of what a man thinks when he meets her. Part and parcel with this is the fact that a woman can only present herself as the woman she truly
Read ‘Em And Weep
“Hi [She Said] – It has been really great to get to know you. You are a great person and you make me laugh. I have recently met and been spending time with another gal and it’s a relationship that I want to pursue. I want to be honest with you rather than string you along.
The Fine Print
Sometimes being right sucks. And this is officially one of those times. Okay, so my first question is a no-brainer: “I hope you don’t think this is a wussy way to handle this…” God, I feel like such a chick when I say this, but are you kidding me, Pal? If it wasn’t a completely
Are We There Yet?
It’s that time. Well, at least I think it’s that time – the, “What’s the status of our relationship?” time. Over a month has gone by. Over 10 dates have gone by. We have Valentine’s Day under our belts; we have been to each other’s houses multiple times. I’ve cooked him dinner. He’s snored through
There And Gone
Not too long ago, I could dismiss your dilemma with that expression, “He’s just not that into you.” But things are so different these days. To some, just saying that probably makes me sound old. Well, I’m not old, and I’m certainly no idealist, but you don’t have to be either one of these to
So, Maybe Cupid Doesn’t Suck
I know you’re dying to know if my phone rang this weekend. Well, I’ll save you the anticipation. You were right. I was right. We were right. It didn’t. A few times I actually had to do the old school pick up to see if it was working. It was. But it didn’t ring. Not
The Word Of The Day Is… Sucker
OK… I’m taking a deep breath because what I have to say may hurt you and I have no interest in ever doing that – but I’m going to say it anyway: You disappoint me. Have I taught you nothing? Have you taught you nothing? We spent the better part of two days last week
Wake Me Up When It’s Over
In my current dating delirium, I actually almost forgot that my least favorite day of the year is approaching – President’s Day. Just kidding. Yep, it’s true, I hate Valentine’s Day. Always have, always will. When you’re single, Valentine’s Day is a miserable, torturous day. You listen to your friends making their elaborate plans; you
All Aboard The V-Train…
Or Not
My three most despised holidays: 1) Valentine’s Day 2) Valentine’s Day 3) Valentine’s Day You are so right about Valentine’s Day. It truly sucks, and for all of the reasons you mentioned. But I hate to break it to you; for guys, it’s even worse. You talk about your friends picking out dresses, dreaming of
