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As the first month of the New Year comes to a close, I am taking a moment to reflect on my new “If you build it” approach to dating.
I have to admit, so far, so good.
It’s been an interesting experiment. Actually it’s not really fair to call it an experiment, because currently it’s my new [...]
Not bad for the first month on the job. I’m sorry – did I just call dating a job? I don’t think I’ve had that many dates, much less options in the last year, not to mention the last month. However, I am as close to an expert on you as anyone else, so allow [...]
Okay, I finally get it. I finally get what all the fuss is about. I finally get why people do it. I finally get why, when those people are teased about it, they just smile and nod, with a knowing look in their eyes.
I went out with a younger guy last night. This, after years [...]
I remember the joke my dad used to always tell and re-tell, over and over, just to piss off my mom – it was a true story. George Burns was this amazingly clever and insightful comedian. He was also old – as in, “in his nineties” old. And he was always doted on and surrounded [...]
It finally happened. The day I’ve been dreading… The moment I never thought would come to pass. I guess I deserved it. It’s the question that I always used to ask of others, silently mocking them while doing so.
“You’re almost 40 and never married?”
And the question following is almost never asked out loud, because luckily [...]
Boy, I hope your number isn’t up either. I haven’t been to a good party in years and if you get married, your wedding will be the party event of the year! So don’t blow it for me, OK? Your number isn’t up yet, and I’ll tell you why. For women, 50 is the new [...]
When ”He” and I began this journey (and this website) last year, we had a definitive plan. The plan was for me to have full access to something every woman, single, in a relationship or even married, has never had but always wanted - a man’s honest opinion. One that comes without bias, without motive, and without repercussions.
This [...]
I know you’re expecting me to laugh you right out of cyberspace. But I’m not going to – because I’m happy to answer these questions. In fact, if more women actually asked for answers to what they really want to know instead of playing stupid chick games and beating around the bush (no pun intended), [...]
One of my all time favorite movies has always been Field of Dreams. I know it sounds corny, but when Shoeless Joe Jackson appeared on that baseball field, my life became an “If you build it, he will come” kind of life.
Well, “he” hasn’t come yet, but the “if you build it” part is starting to take effect [...]
You certainly don’t mess around, do you? I think this new approach of yours is going to work – or blow up in your face.
First off, what sixty-four year-old man gives his age as “sixty-four and a half?” Dude. Really? You’re way too smart to do that. What did you think, that if you said [...]
