Comments on: Never Say Never http://shesaidthis-hesaidthat.com/2009/11/never-say-never/ Whenever I have something to say, so does he. Fri, 10 Feb 2012 15:32:17 +0000 hourly 1 By: SheSaidHeSaid http://shesaidthis-hesaidthat.com/2009/11/never-say-never/comment-page-1/#comment-33 SheSaidHeSaid Wed, 11 Nov 2009 01:38:08 +0000 http://shesaidthis-hesaidthat.com/?p=742#comment-33 If this is such a "beautifully choreographed dance," then why does everybody keep stepping on each other's toes? Clearly this subject deserves more attention from us -- and that's exactly what you're going to get. Stay tuned! ~ Him If this is such a “beautifully choreographed dance,” then why does everybody keep stepping on each other’s toes?

Clearly this subject deserves more attention from us — and that’s exactly what you’re going to get.

Stay tuned!

~ Him

]]> By: Anonymous http://shesaidthis-hesaidthat.com/2009/11/never-say-never/comment-page-1/#comment-30 Anonymous Tue, 10 Nov 2009 15:48:56 +0000 http://shesaidthis-hesaidthat.com/?p=742#comment-30 I just can’t let this one go by without responding. I know this is ridiculous but I think “He” is full of shit. It’s a classic male answer---sure, on paper, it’s cool as shit to ask out a man, yeah I love it and support it. But when it comes down to reality, I would guess he’d balk if it happened to him. Seriously. I’m not saying after x amount of dates with someone that it’s not OK to ask out a guy…but you’ve got to get past the x amount of dates. It’s got to be when picking up the phone to call the guy doesn’t involve any nervousness because hands down you know he’s into you. Until then, I’m with your old fashioned friend. Now….I’m good with calling a guy and putting yourself in a situation that makes it easier for him to ask you out…but I agree…I don’t think you should ask the guy out. And I don’t think it’s “old fashioned” I think it’s genetics. All species have mating rituals. And for generation after generation it’s the same thing. Whether it’s poofing up feathers or fighting or whatever, it’s always the same. Who the hell are we to think there aren’t some biological rituals at play every time boy meets girl? So instead of looking at it as being a “weak” position and women should be stronger, maybe it helps to think about being part of a beautifully choreographed dance that has been going on for generation after generation? My two cents…. I just can’t let this one go by without responding.
I know this is ridiculous but I think “He” is full of shit. It’s a classic male answer—sure, on paper, it’s cool as shit to ask out a man, yeah I love it and support it. But when it comes down to reality, I would guess he’d balk if it happened to him. Seriously. I’m not saying after x amount of dates with someone that it’s not OK to ask out a guy…but you’ve got to get past the x amount of dates. It’s got to be when picking up the phone to call the guy doesn’t involve any nervousness because hands down you know he’s into you. Until then, I’m with your old fashioned friend. Now….I’m good with calling a guy and putting yourself in a situation that makes it easier for him to ask you out…but I agree…I don’t think you should ask the guy out. And I don’t think it’s “old fashioned” I think it’s genetics. All species have mating rituals. And for generation after generation it’s the same thing. Whether it’s poofing up feathers or fighting or whatever, it’s always the same. Who the hell are we to think there aren’t some biological rituals at play every time boy meets girl? So instead of looking at it as being a “weak” position and women should be stronger, maybe it helps to think about being part of a beautifully choreographed dance that has been going on for generation after generation?
My two cents….

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