http://shesaidthis-hesaidthat.com/2009/10/whos-a-girl-to-do/ Whenever I have something to say, so does he. Fri, 10 Feb 2012 15:32:17 +0000 hourly 1 http://shesaidthis-hesaidthat.com/2009/10/whos-a-girl-to-do/comment-page-1/#comment-23 Anonymous Sun, 25 Oct 2009 02:14:03 +0000 http://shesaidthis-hesaidthat.com/?p=691#comment-23 Does it really matter what other people think of you as? A whore...a slut. I think it only matters what you think of yourself. I'm 24 years old and to be completely honest with you I can't count on two hands how many men I've had interactions with. Does that make me a whore? Maybe to some people, but not to me. I think of myself as a beautiful, strong, open minded women, inside and out. No one will ever beable to take that away from me. In the end only one person can judge me and I don't think I've done anything horribly wrong to be denied. "Confused Thirty Something"...I say go for want you truly want...if you can't make yourself happy then who can? ;) Does it really matter what other people think of you as? A whore…a slut. I think it only matters what you think of yourself. I’m 24 years old and to be completely honest with you I can’t count on two hands how many men I’ve had interactions with. Does that make me a whore? Maybe to some people, but not to me. I think of myself as a beautiful, strong, open minded women, inside and out. No one will ever beable to take that away from me. In the end only one person can judge me and I don’t think I’ve done anything horribly wrong to be denied. “Confused Thirty Something”…I say go for want you truly want…if you can’t make yourself happy then who can?

]]> http://shesaidthis-hesaidthat.com/2009/10/whos-a-girl-to-do/comment-page-1/#comment-19 Anonymous Mon, 19 Oct 2009 15:30:09 +0000 http://shesaidthis-hesaidthat.com/?p=691#comment-19 How refreshing. I join your confussion in a very unfortunate way, I don't get it either. I was raised by strick morals for which I lived up to and found my sexual partners easily gathered to fit on one hand. I consider myself a quality women who has been described as a "Lady". My tightly wound exterior leads only the very perceptive men to guess how vulnerable I am. I would make a lousy slut. What is a whore anyway? I'm beginning to ask this question frequently when I consider acting out my desires. Is a whore a women who doesn't care about the person who she's with, or is a whore a women who cares less of herself in that interaction. More importantly, what is the definition of a whore to a man. Or are men just as abstract about subject as women are. I see myself as a decent women who was horribly neglected in a long marriege to be brought to place of pure and unappologitic need to connect physically with a man. Does that make me a potential whore, perhapes. I woke up, found all the parts work beautifully and I'm grateful I have a second chance to discover all this hype about sex to be true. So my question, how if it possible at all, does an attractive women who is comfortable being respected and thought of as a lady have sex? How refreshing. I join your confussion in a very unfortunate way, I don’t get it either. I was raised by strick morals for which I lived up to and found my sexual partners easily gathered to fit on one hand. I consider myself a quality women who has been described as a “Lady”. My tightly wound exterior leads only the very perceptive men to guess how vulnerable I am. I would make a lousy slut. What is a whore anyway? I’m beginning to ask this question frequently when I consider acting out my desires. Is a whore a women who doesn’t care about the person who she’s with, or is a whore a women who cares less of herself in that interaction. More importantly, what is the definition of a whore to a man. Or are men just as abstract about subject as women are. I see myself as a decent women who was horribly neglected in a long marriege to be brought to place of pure and unappologitic need to connect physically with a man. Does that make me a potential whore, perhapes. I woke up, found all the parts work beautifully and I’m grateful I have a second chance to discover all this hype about sex to be true. So my question, how if it possible at all, does an attractive women who is comfortable being respected and thought of as a lady have sex?

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