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Yes Woman
My date canceled at 2pm – for tonight. And I was overjoyed. I know I should have been disappointed, that I should have been looking forward to this date all week because he’s been so interested in me. Nope, I was overjoyed. I no longer was filled with my Saturday afternoon dread of the evening
Just Say Yes
I’ve seen it, andĀ for such a stupid movie, it got me to thinking as well. I NEVER say “yes.” I only do what I have to do. If “no” is an option, than “no” it is. Now let’s assess if this approach is working for me… I’m alone, unemployed and on the verge of going
It’s Not You, It’s Me… Again
There’s definitely something wrong with me. I mean, there is something really, really wrong with me. I had date number 4 last night with a great guy – one who opens doors, holds my arm crossing the street, looks at me with googly eyes and thinks I have a great ass. I mean, come on…
It’s Not You – It’s You
Oh it’s you, alright… it’s totally, 100% you. MOST PEOPLE know a good thing when they see it. MOST PEOPLE embrace what you have so often dismissed. MOST PEOPLE don’t lose sight of the forest, for the trees. NEWSFLASH: You’re not most people. I feel for you. I really do… Even you, yourself know it’s
The Ex Files
I saw the love of my life today. It never fails… for almost 20 years I have loved this man and he somehow knows just the time to show up and turn my world upside down. Usually it’s when my world is upside down. First, the phone call: “I’ve been feeling like you aren’t okay.”
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For Asshole
That guy you are talking about, with all due respect to him and your feelings for him, is a FUCKING ASSHOLE. Here’s what you DO NOT DO when you are a man who has been deeply involved with a woman and it is now over because YOU decided it to be, yet you know she
Watch Out, Your Face Is Falling
I have a blind date tonight. I should be really excited about it. We’ve talked on the phone a few times, emailed a few times and have seen pictures of each other. He’s cute. He’s really cute. He’s also smart, and funny, and quick-witted, just how I like them. I should be really excited. But
Dating Blind
I don’t believe in blind dates… never have, never will. Not that I blame you for trying… you could turn down all inquiries from friends, reject all offers and sit home alone every night like I do. How does that look to ya? I use my unwillingness to get off my ass and meet women




